Seven Year Itch

I am not sure what it is, but I have felt stagnant within my relationship for the last few months. I love my other half, and I would never ever cheat on him; but I find myself looking at other guys, and I have even checked out some of the chub/chaser sites. I would be a chub, just so all are aware. I don't even know why I am looking at these things. Maybe I am looking for some sort of lacking friendship. I really only have one gay friend, and we work such conflicting schedules that I hardly ever see him. I wonder if it is a predisposition that made me title this the 7 year itch, or if the phenomenon is actually true. My partner and I met 7 years ago this month, and we "celebrate" our 7 year anniversary at the end of May.

Maybe we need to go away. Both of us are saying that we need a vacation; but I get no paid time off, and he's hit a slump at work, and is not making a lot right now. It always seems to be the way, but you know, it just might be worth the ding on the VISA for a bit.

Also, I have been having a hard time sleeping lately. I need to take something just to fall asleep. I am starting to think that since I turned 30, caffeine actually does something to/for me now. Hard to say really; it could be the shift work I do, the things that are on my mind all the time lately (7 year itch, wanting to change my life, etc).

Speaking of, it is really late and I start days on Monday, so I am cutting this short.

L8r

So the moment passed

So I didn't end up coming out to my sister. The conversation moved to a different place, and I ended up keeping it to myself. That doesn't mean that it won't come out later though..... Anyways, I have bigger fish to fry right now anyways. I have so much to think about and do over the next few days. I have several jobs that I am going to apply for, because I feel that things are going to get ugly at my current job. All I will say is why mess with a good thing??????? Whatever. The other stuff is all getting my house in order and getting rid of stuff. I have waaaayyy too much, and I need to downsize. I went through my clothes the other day and got rid of two huge garbage bags that I took to Value Village. It felt almost therapeutic. If I can get myself on a roll, then nothing will stop me! (Like a Toyota)

Long time, no post

So there are a few things of note since my last post. I turned thirty, made a sudden decision that I am going to clean up my life (I'm a borderline hoarder.....), and right now I am sitting in my sister's apartment contemplating coming out to her..... That's right, the same sister that I came out to 13 years ago. The difference is that she has learned a lot since then, and had a lot more exposure to gay people. Maybe I'll add to this post later, but thought that I would put this much out there at least right now.....